So, here are a few things to remember:. Of course, if you use my 3-Minute technique the way I've presented it in a past newsletter and in my book, you'll greatly reduce this type of resistance in the first place and you'll know exactly what to do if and when you run into excuses and resistance.
Let's face it: Attractive women get a lot of attention. They're not looking for a guy that throws himself at her, and then gives up easily. They're looking for a guy that has all kinds of self confidence, and sees right through her games Think about it.
And, of course, if you want to learn more about how the female mind works, plus dozens and dozens of specific techniques to attract women, get their numbers and emails, get more dates, and take things to a physical level, you need to download a copy of my book, "Double Your Dating".
You can download it right now and be reading it within literally minutes from right now. Just go to:. I spend literally HOURS personally teaching you the psychology behind why women are attracted to some men, but not others If you're ready for the very best, then go get it I'll send it to you to check out at zero risk No questions, no hassles. And, if you don't quite have the "hang" of using my favorite technique Self-pride, resentment, and jealousy are only a few of the many reasons why someone might play head games with you after a breakup.
Some people do it on purpose, while others may do it unintentionally. Head games are "deliberate" actions designed to create a psychological effect on another person, mostly for one's own amusement. In other words, people that play head games manipulate you to get what they want. Both men and women are guilty of such selfish behaviors, and head games can also happen in workplaces, families, and relationships. Most often, however, people do it to their ex-significant other.
In this article, I will explain five different head games, the warning signs, reasons, solutions for when your ex is playing these emotionally draining games with you. One of the most common head games that someone will play is "hot and cold" behavior.
For example, they will tell you "I miss you" then before you know it, they are backing out. Your ex does this is because they are dishonestly trying to keep their options open.
They give just enough to keep you from moving on. It gives them both options to keep you around while not committing, practically stringing you along while they decide what they want. Detaching yourself and moving on from this person will be your best bet because it will save you from false hopes.
False hope isn't the only warning sign that your ex is playing a head game. Rejecting your ex can lead to extreme resentment, and they will do anything in their power to grab your attention, even if it means indirectly.
They will try anything they can to manipulate you into staying in their lives by acting as they resent you. If they seem cruel or are bringing you down, look at the person for what they are.
This is nothing but a desperate attempt to keep you in their lives. It is a final and last attempt to cry for attention.
Anger stems from hurt , and the hurt stems from caring about you. If the person wanted absolutely nothing to do with you, they wouldn't play these games. They wouldn't try to contact you, they wouldn't be mentioning your name, they wouldn't be lashing out, and they would completely cut all ties if they truly didn't care about you. Come to read on another forum, that Head Games now are considered to be: 1- the dating several women at the same time, and not being up front about it.
Or 2- it is going out on two or three dates with a woman, getting sex on last date, and then just disappears without any trace. Isn't 1 also being a 'Player? I thought the term was was 'Bedpost Notcher' or something? And isn't 3 most post-adolescent guys wet-dream? As in Free Milk, and no sharing the closet space? As in immature? Am I missing something as to why the definition got changed while I wasn't dating for a decade or two? I would agree with 2 and 3 also being Head Games.
Head Games are the guy saying I really like you, had a great time with you last weekend, and then he waits weeks to call you or whenever he gets around to it and then does it again.
If a woman is attractive, she needs to be selective about which guys she allows into her life because after all, she is searching for real love just as much as other people are. However, since those guys are hard to find, a woman will no doubt come across many guys who think she is a bitch for playing mind games or rejecting them.
You can be the guy that the majority of women wish they could meet, but you have to be willing to accept the differences between men and women rather than fighting against them or getting angry or annoyed about it. When you understand why women behave in the ways they do, it actually becomes quite amusing because you can see through everything that a woman does.
Rather than losing confidence and doubting yourself like the majority of guys, you are one of the rare confident guys who smiles and just continues on towards kissing, sex and a relationship. At that point, the next logical step is to start having sex, but a woman will often test a guy at this point, which some guys will see as a woman playing silly games and being immature or annoying.
Have you been faking your confidence up to this point? Do you really feel like you deserve her? In moments like that, a confident guy will either just smile and keep kissing her and escalating to sex, or he will smile and stop kissing her to just lay there together on the bed and relax. Moments or minutes later, the kissing and touching will naturally begin again and in almost all cases, the woman will then have sex with the guy. Women have just as much sex as men and enjoy it just as much as men, but they have to approach dating and sex differently to men.
For example: If women are too open about enjoying sex, they are often slut shamed i. Regardless of how good your relationship is, a woman will always test your confidence and challenge your position as the dominant one in the relationship. Instead, she simply wants to feel safe that she is with a guy who has the emotional strength to handle challenging people and challenging situations in life. She also wants to see that it continues to make sense for her to submit to you as the more dominant one in the relationship.
The more respect and attraction she loses, the less interest she will have in sex or intimate affection e. Some guys see this behavior by women as selfish, unloving, silly and annoying mind games and they wish that women would behave more like men do. Just look at the photo below of masculine lesbians vs. Which women do you feel more attracted to? The masculine lesbians or the feminine women?
Pretty easy answer, right? The more masculine you are in how you think, feel, behave, talk, take action and respond to women, the more attractive you will be to all kinds of feminine women e.
Shy, confident, hard to get, easy to get. They are women and the fact that they are feminine and not like men is the reason why you are naturally attracted to them.
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